Restore correct activation for out-of-bundle Mac executables

This restores old activation logic for Mac applications, while still
preserving the fix for #23893 from #24003.

Closes #24056.

Closes #24062.

src/osx/cocoa/utils.mm

@@ -109,7 +109,12 @@ void wxBell()
         }
 
         if ( activate ) {
-            [[NSRunningApplication currentApplication] activateWithOptions: NSApplicationActivateIgnoringOtherApps];
+            if ( [NSApp activationPolicy] == NSApplicationActivationPolicyAccessory ) {
+                [[NSRunningApplication currentApplication] activateWithOptions: NSApplicationActivateIgnoringOtherApps];
+            }
+            else {
+                [NSApp activateIgnoringOtherApps: YES];
+            }
         }
     }
 }